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Disengaging from the twisted narrative of a loved one struggling with addiction can seem insurmountable. Instinctively, when someone close to us falls, fails, or finds themselves in the grips of mental/emotional illness or disease, our first reaction is often to dive in headfirst and become a human life preserver. Unfortunately,Read More

Much has been written on the subject since Melody Beattie’s groundbreaking book, Codependent No More. It is a word that has entered into the vernacular of our culture and is often misconstrued and misapplied. Below is an outline of some of the basic elements of codependency. Hopefully, you will findRead More

By Sean Humphrey, In Recovery When I started this journey of recovery from active addiction, I made a solemn oath to myself that regardless of how much I did not want to put in the effort, I would resolutely take any suggestion people who had come before me, had forRead More

By Ron Paterik, Alcohol & Drug Counselor, MA, LISAC When it comes to addiction or life with an addicted loved one, there is one common denominator… pain!  As a result, it eventually boils down to a single central issue: what are you going to do with your pain?  Are youRead More